If you’re a female who has always been attracted to girlfriends, you should be aware of the wonderful community you’re part of. Lesbianism has a long, distinguished history, and while there have been hiccups along the way, in the inclusive climate of the early 21st century it has never been more convenient for any single lesbian to embrace her sexuality, and anticipate an exciting future.
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1. Her story: celebrating lesbian icons
To underline just how prominent the lesbian community has been, it might be worthwhile mentioning some of the most iconic examples. Take Queen Christina of Sweden, who ruled that Scandinavian kingdom in the 17th century. Widely reputed to prefer the company of her female courtiers, she was famously portrayed by one of the greatest actresses of all time, the enigmatic Swedish-American, Greta Garbo. Polite society was scandalized by an English traveler, landowner, and diarist, Anne Lister, who kept meticulous records of her lesbian encounters in the 19th century – written in code. She is known as the ‘first modern lesbian.’ Fast-forward to the 20th century, and a police raid on the Stonewall Inn, Manhattan, New York, targeting the gay community, sparked counter-demonstrations that put LGBT rights firmly on the map. During the disturbances, one lesbian, Storme DeLarverie, fought back against the police officer who’d just struck her over the head. These events gave impetus to the lesbian and gay liberation movements in the USA.
2. Lesbian romance and community
Nowadays, lesbians are accepted in modern society and welcomed to Pride festivals and marches. Because LGBT history is not as clearly defined as other civil rights struggles, activists are going out of their way to give a voice to women who might still feel oppressed due to their sexuality. But lesbian romance is flourishing, with nobody batting an eyelid when top tennis stars like Billie Jean King or Martina Navratilova proudly professed being attracted to their own sex. There are strong lesbian communities across the globe, although there are still less-enlightened pockets in certain countries, mainly in Africa and Asia. Hopefully, the strident voices of lesbians in the developed world will encourage more individuals to speak their minds. Lesbian communities are a hotbed of creativity, with women feeling empowered to express themselves in so many different fields, from art to theatre, poetry to songs.
3. Sugar dating is not a straight thing
Of the many lesbian relationship types, one of the least appreciated but extremely popular is sugar dating, or sugaring for short. This is where the dynamic of the partnership is based on an age gap between the sugar mommy, and her sugar baby. Anyone interested in connecting with a sugar mommy lesbian can refer to a dating site specializing in this form of interaction. This might seem like a niche area, but many younger girls are growing disillusioned at the thought of hanging around in nightclubs surrounded by flighty Millennials. Women are beginning to crave everything a lesbian sugar mommy could bring to a relationship: sensuality, experience, maturity, trust, and last but by no means least, a healthy bank balance! If you’re the sugar baby in one of these partnerships, you should always be thinking of ways to let your momma know how much you appreciate her.
4. Same-sex marriage possibilities today
The advent of civil rights legislation throughout the developed world has created an environment where women can tie the know with other women, and their peer groups will accept these unions with grace. Same-sex marriage is now permitted in all 50 states of the USA, and there are now approximately 1.2 million same-sex couples in this nation.
5. Growing lesbian representation in media
Magazines and web platforms regularly represent women who are into same-sex partnerships. The likes of K.D. Lang, St Vincent, Tracey Chapman, Hayley Kiyoko, and many other female performers can sell considerable amounts of records and wow crowds, despite focusing strongly on their lesbian sexuality. These courageous, talented women are continuing the carry the torch for lesbianism and same-sex relationships, presenting excellent role models for the many young girls who might feel inhibited about expressing their true feelings.
6. From Sappho to modern lesbian literature
Who was Sappho? Granted, she may not have received the same level of prominence as some of her contemporaries, such as Aristotle or Plato, but she was the Ancient Greek poet who hailed from the island of Lesbos – becoming one of lesbian literature’s earliest exponents, not to mention giving the name to the female same-sex community. In modern times, lesbians have long felt free to express themselves. Popping ‘lesbian literature’ into any search engine will unleash a torrent of results.
7. Pride flag as a symbol of unity
The pride flag is a wonderful signal that lesbians are here, they’re widespread, and they enjoy equal status in modern society. The side of rainbow flags proudly fluttering at marches and gatherings is such a positive sign.
As a lesbian, there are many ways to make the most of the opportunities for romance that come your way. As well as absorbing the fascinating information provided here, you might also wish to consider how to feel positive inside, and ready to mingle with other female singles. Grooming is always a great way to ensure you look your best, whether that’s getting a manicure, or gently removing hair. How about treating yourself to some brand-new clothes? There are many ways to stay in tip-top condition. So, what are you waiting for?!
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